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I wanted to know your opinion on something. These days, it seems to me girls are becoming more and more shallow, generally (I'm not going to say ALL girls are like that, some girls aren't, but in general, especially the more attractive they are, they seem to be more shallow). Now I have a concern. Please show some compassion as you read on. I have NEVER asked a woman's opinion on this.
When I was born, I was born with one leg shorter than the other one, because my right femur was slightly curving outwards (for some reason). It was a 1 in 10 million chance. But it happened. And now, consequently, I have to wear a lift on my shoe to compensate for the length. As of a couple months ago, the lift is about 9-10cm in length. My only other option is to get surgery to fix it, which I am strongly considering, but your opinion may have an influence on my choice. There's more f***ed up things to add about my leg than this, but they're irrelevant.
My question to you is...do girls care? Do they care if my leg is like this? Does it make them uncomfortable, or is it a turnoff? Is the lift a turnoff?
I mean, I've never had trouble talking to girls or exuding confidence around them, and most girls I've talked to enjoy talking to me. But I have always been shy of asking them out or taking it a step further because I feared that they might be uncomfortable with my situation. And I always feel self-conscious about it, and sometimes I get stares which really bothers me. I've trapped myself in a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Please let me know what women think on this issue, as well as what do YOU think. Thank you, Julia.
what is your name and hoby.mynam is adeel.
hello April 12th, 2009 george
I would like to know your secret to meeting cute guys.
when your a beautiful women you wake up every morning to a life full of opportuninties and adventure.So how does an average guy get the time of day to meet and know an exceptional cocktail waitress such as yourself? Love just isn't enough Do you think beautiful girls expectations are just too high with all the attention and opportunities they recieve for just being beautiful? what do they have to offer besides there good looks? Money and good looks can take a person far in this world.What good is all that beauty if theres nothing behind it. I'm not speaking for all beautiful women but but alot of them think the world owes them something for being beautiful and they get it to the power of beauty is the most powerful possesion and women know how to work it. sent with love and respect. george
this is my first e-mail, so i don't know how this works but i have a question. can a relationship work if its a long distance relationship? i mean when the relationship started it was not a long distance relationship but because of our jobs she had to move, its only a temporary thing do you think it will work out?
hi how are u?am ali and i am from lebanon i am trying to find a cute and lovely girl,please advice.thanks
wouldnt say how u attracted me...just wanna know about u more...could u tell me about your life,hobbies,interests....
hope to take an answer!!!!!
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hi julia im a big fan
i dont know you are probably getting hundreds of emails in a day so here i go.
it will be great if you reply me
i met a girl last year in a animation course we become friends real fast. she is 35 years old im 29 btw
so we started to see each other regularly as friends one night we were very drunk and she invited me over to her house and there were other people from our class at he bar and everybody heard whats going on and i said no to her becouse it was gonna look weird anyway.
at the same night she texted me that she was sorry about hitting on me and very amazed that i didnt come to her place etc
ah she has a boyfriend too who is 11 years younger than her i met the guy he is very very in love with her.
one night we were in a bar she approached to me and i told her that her boy friend loves her too much and she replied me
yes but i rather go to hell with you.
i was surprised and got question marks all over
anyways eventually one night i took her to my place and we slept together (i know stupid)
the next day her bf went away for 6 months and we started to hang out together.
she turned my life living hell in that 6 months i dont know what to do.
the more i know her i found out that how unhappy how depressed she is and finally i fell in love with her so bad
then weird stuff started to happen
like she started to ask why to me while having sex i asked her whats going on she replied that she likes it that way
and i told her that i love her she literarily pushed me away
i told her that i wanted to be with her, be happy with her she said there is no way that i cant make her happy
the next night we went out together, she started to flirt with some other guys in front of me i was so pissed
i dont know why she did that i left the place 2 hours later she came to my home we had a big fight.
she said it was just an ego thing it didnt mean anything but it meant a lot for me we really shouted at each
other she started to cry. The next morning at breakfast she thretened me that she ll go out and find a guy and sleep with him .
i said whatever do what you want to do. she left i dont know what happened
later that week she called me and we went out together for a coffe in a second she turned to me and all her mood changed
she started to tell about she is a bitch she allways cheated her boyfriends and nobody own nobody and started o threten me again
i was speachless
well next week i went out with a girlfriend of mine and by surprise she was in the same place she saw us together and freaked out
she drunked too much that night and it was a mess she asked me to take her to home she was a mess and so i did
on the road she just collapsed to the ground started to cry, started to yell at me about go on sleep with the other girl
i was surprised that she was jealus
well after that week we met again while having dinner she started to cry again and told me that she doesnt want to see me again
i asked why she said youre unhappy asked me how can i go like that she asked me if im testing myself with her i said ok we left the place
and went out to see our friends that night she introduced me with another girl. the night was over and i was walking home with her
she asked me why i didnt hit on her girlfriend. it was so weird then she asked me to come to her place i was so angry
i didnt say a word.
after we entered her home i snapped at her finally who the hell you thing you are and all that bs
she started to cry she said she was sorry i went back to my place
after that day she said she was sorry and i said to her that its all over i cant take it anymore her boyfriend will be back soon and
i cant go on like this i said i never want to see her again .
after that she freaked out again she wanted to meet all the time
i said i just want to be left alone
1 month passed we started to talk again over msn i am so distant to her her bf is back she is always sendin messegas over msn
i dont know what she wants i told her that she made my life hell there is no way we can be friends anymore
she allways find a way to reach me and she allways has a bad way of saying things like
if she wanted to be my girlfriend she would which made me feel so low and kept doubting about myself
i love her so much she knows that but shes not gonna leave him for me i know that for sure
i dont know maybe she has borderline personality disorder
maybe she is just unstable she had a bad life and bad breakups
she has got weird cut marks on her back i asked about it she didnt give me an answer. but i can tell that those mmarks are not surgical as if somebody did that to her
now im with somebody else i cant get her out of my mind and it effects my relationship i think im gonna end it too becouse its not fare
so this is my story any advice?
I´ve been watching some of your video blogs, and you seem like a very cool girl, so I would like you opinion on something that happent the other day.
I met this girl on new years eve, we talked but very short (we shared a cab) She added me on Facebook and I replied by writing her a short note (Thanks for last night, hope you got home safe etc.) No responce...
On Saterday I met her again, at a club. We talked... Alot, about 3 hours:-D (I´m note very good at the hole club thing picking up women)ANYWAY, when we leave the club Iska her when I will see her again,she says that she is working next weekend and tells me that she just wants to take it slow, but hat she had had a very nice time... Now I havent asked for her number, sence I didnt really feel that she wanted me too and she havent given it to me either.
What do I do? Wait to run in to her again, write her something more direct on her Facebook? I´m kind of lost, ok really lost, and what does she mean by that she had a very nice time but she wants to take it slow.
Sorry for the long mail and the poor writing, but I´m Danish:-D
Hope to hear from you, could really use your help. Thanks
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I've browsed your video blogs now and then, and yea.. you've got a good thing goin' - helping out a lot of guys. Great how you share lil bits of your life.. that's bold. You familiar at all with David Deida? You might find his work intriguing, or even helpful.
I'm visiting NYC for the first time, and am loving it - thought I'd drop you a hello. I'll be in town until the 6th, and if you'd like to see who I am / what I'm about - check me out: www.myspace.com/willbpeace
Keep inspiring the masses.. and maybe I'll see you around town. By the way, have you thought about getting into yoga? You might find it boring at first, but it might feed your need for movement and challenge in the realm of flexibility and body awareness.. you'd probably be pretty advanced.
Dharma Mittra and Jivamukti yoga are two of the higher end yoga schools in NYC.. check 'em out.
Blessings to you!
I am wondering what should a guy bring on a first date? Considering, I am a gentemen in every way possible, but I like to present a pleasant gift on the first date. Any suggestions? Tim
It's cool u came back...I thought maybe u were done and through with your double agent business. glad to hear things are happening for you baby-girl.
hey just wanted to say hi and i think its pretty sweet that ur from ny. iam from oregon but i do like the ny yankees
I dont really Have a life. Im a slave to my art wich is the same as my job.I train Racehorses 24/7 job required not many prospects in my little world. So kind of makes you apathetic about the dating thing.But I travel a lot Minnesota in the summer Fla. in winter so dont realy have a base. I think that scares most of them off right away!My Question is how do girls feel about that? opps out of room!
holle julia,how doing my dear?
why are u so beautfull?
what does a girl ultimately want from a guy?
what advice do you have for a guy who is 19 and still hasn't had sex yet. I mean i know i can have sex anytime i wanted but i feel like when i want it it would come to me. is that wrong, am i weird